CHOOSE OR STAY.

i have seen and heard many stories about spouses who had problems, and this marital problems could lead to divorce especially. i've noticed there are many spouses who could not find solution and has ended up by making a wrong decision. honestly, this had caused me so worried about building up a family. does everything about commitment lead to an argument and does divorce is the best solution? in Islam marriage, Syariah Court provides the conciliation committee which brings the purpose of giving spouses chances to reconcile in any cases where there is possibility of mutual agreement could arrived. I didnt mean that to reach the best solution, it must be involved of the third party. but, sometimes, people tend to find the easy solution without relying other's opinion. You need to entirely eliminate negative ideas, fear and worries that you have. Be positive and remind yourself that we are not created perfect. Whenever you're in trouble, it is time for you to evaluate yourself and your spouse. yes it is challenging to handle the strains but sometimes it can strengthen the relationship. i feel sorry for my friend who had divorced early this morning because the little princess daughter that they had did not understand what her parents had went through. and if only the cutie princess understands, do u think that she wants her parents to divorce? having children is an additional stress in a marriage, but dont you realize their existence is to bring strong bond for you as couple. trust me, you will regret. because it is too late for you to convince your children that you loved them. because if you loved them, you should not have walked away. one day, your children will ask you, why dont you find ways to save your marriage? prepare the answer from now :)